I've been off my MTX and Enbrel for 5 months now and my hands and wrists tend to be sore all the time. Not painful, but they do demand my attention
I have found that the more I exercise them (in the process of lifting weights and riding mtn. bikes) the better they feel. Not necessarily during the activity, but afterwards. I also find I prefer to wash dishes by hand instead of the dishwasher, my wife gives me hell, but I really like the warm water over my wrists and hands
FWIW, I was on MTX alone for 4 months with little relief. During that period, I moved from oral MTX to the injection. After the 4 months, I was put on Enbrel as well, and 2 months later I was much, much better off.
Also, "does not like to see patients until ..." is not reasonable to me. It is not about
what the Doc likes and I would not stand for that answer. OTOH, if they had asked if you could hold out until the 29th of Nov., I would think that a more reasonable response. Your Rheumy should do whatever it takes to make you feel better.
... Craig