New here...issues with Crohns/biologics

Diagnosed 2015 with Crohn's after getting a flareup after taking Otezla(drug from hell) for plaque psoriasis. Used Humira 1.5 -2 yrs...stopped working...went on Stelara....effective for 1st year and a half....last 8mths have been having more low flares with several trips to ER. Recent breast reconstruction/ lumpectomy had to stop Stelara late August when last dose due because of surgery.
Have had three trips to ER in last three weeks...BUT even with Crohns flaring realize how bad I felt ( fatigued, run down) while taking Stelara....and how much clearer and better (other than the flateups) I've felt. My GI dr is a drug pusher and isn't interested in how I feel....slapped my hands like a child for not taking last dose...even though my oncologist and surgeon advised I had to for safety, healing issues, infection.
Anyone have any suggestions? I really really don't want to go back on Stelara....
Any luck out there with Chinese herbs and accupuncture? Any others without that fog, fatigued feeling?
I m feeling distressed.

58yrs fem; have used Otezla, Humira, Stelara, on Budesonide, medrol, zofran for flareup...diagnosed 2015 Crohn's/ IBS...

Thanks ASellers. I am definitely going to get a 2nd opinion; I'd like to go one week without a trip to ER to get shot up with Morphine & Promerhazine! since Stelara hasn't put me in remission or helped alot I'm just jazzed about staying on it...the benefits don't outweigh feeling crappy everyday. Used to workout x5 days a week and in good shape before this all started 4 yrs ago.work a ft time job and a pt time job on days off....not by choice.
The Otezla was a pill and not a biologic but two weeks in I was so incredibly sick ended up in ER then admitted for several days...pill cam showed Crohns( same spot it always shows on CT now). Shortly after started Humira first.
Great forum and nice to know ones not alone...family & friends just don't understand.

LOL I'vehad my current GI Dr. 5 yrs....never been trsted for MAP and after reading about it I would say it's a possobility since I had a significant Hpylori infection sometime ago....before Crohns.
Time for new opinions.
Thanks for your advice. Much appreciated!

Why haven't you tried Remicade? It's still the state of the art choice as far as biologics go. I would recommend that route.

73monte I've heard of it but it wasn't on my GI"s or my radar until recently with all this. Thanks for mentioning, I will check it out; I don't mind a biologic as long as I don't have that constant fatigued, iccky feeling all the time.
Thank you!

Sorry, I don't have a ton of info...what is 6mp?
I'm open to looking at everything so I can gave an informed discussion with a GI and make a decision that's best for ME...not THEM!!!

Maybe worth asking about entyvio (vedolizamub) it's a biologic but supposed to be gut specific rather than the whole immune system so fewer side effects. I've been okay on it and I reacted badly to several other drugs. It is a bit slow to get working so you might need the old steroids to help in the meanwhile.