my dream

Hello,

I wanted to share this dream with you all, maybe you could tell me what it could mean. I usually forget most of my dreams soon after I have them but this dream seems to stick and I keep thinking about it , it is a very strange dream.

It starts when I'm adminited to the hospital for the 3rd time ( I was admited twice in real life), I'm not sure what's the reason but I'm guessing because I'm lazy or something. In the hospital I meet one of my friends who I can recognize from my first hospitalization, a 50 year old man who was very nice to me and made it eazier for me to bare. The hospital is unfamiliar to me like it's very difirent from the ones I'v been to, and we can go outside get fresh air, on the outside it's like a univesity campus, white buildings. it seems in this hospital they are good at cooking too. We are smoking all the time. two weeks run by and I'm frustrated because they won't allow me to contact my parents, I want to contact them to let me out of the hospital, but they say I have to spend a whole month before I will get a chance to contact them. at night, I'm sneaking out of my room, and then I see the guards eating and celebrating, without asking I come up to them and I start eating too, there is tasty chicken. nobody objects strangly, and I suddenly see my ant eating too, I wonder what she is doing there, I try to talk to her but she doesn't respond, shorty I see my mum and 3 attractive girls comming, and other relatives, it appears one of the attractive girls is a cousin of mine and the other 2 I don't recognize, my mother has brought them to cheer me up it seems. but I'm embarased that they know I'm in the hospital. I want to talk to my mum about getting me out of the hospital, as I try to talk to her suddenly I wake up!

I thought about what this dream would mean. the apprearance of the 50 year old friend of mine was strange, maybe I should contact him? also the university campus, could this be a sign that I should go back to study at this time? and the appearance of my attractive cousin , whom I did have a crush on but didn't do anything about it, what does this mean? let me know what you think!


if you have strange dreams lately that you want to share let me know, my grandmother says she thinks sometimes some of the dreams we get are meant for other people!

I will say this about dreams and definitely believe it. It all matters how you feel in your dream that counts.

I have had repetitious dreams of being lost, wrong bus, wrong train. I always feel awful in those dreams but I believe it represents the feeling of being lost in life.

I have read to think about the overall feeling of your dream and it will tell you a lot. I truely believe that.

Have you felt stifled? Unable to get through to you parents? Embarassed about anything?

It sounds like people accept you and the 50 yr old man represents comfort you are getting it somewhere. Sounds like your mother cares about you and is willing to do what she can to make you happy.

I never heard that your dreams were meant for other people--not saying right or wrong, but I believe it's all in how you feel in the dream.

You speak of frustration, embaressment and comfort and wanting to get away.

I think those are all things you feel and we put our feelings into dreams in various ways.

Hope that made some sense.

thank you for your feed back, kitt I agree navu's respounce is really neat. it is true that whatever happens in the dream does reflect on worries about real life too. my embarasment about my past is a terrible thing that I keep worrying about, this is something that I learned to adapt to by forgeting but navy was able to pick this up by translating my dream. so the attractive girls I saw represent prospective wifes or relationships that I might have in the future, and I keep worrying if I meet a girl what would I tell her on my terrible past like my previews addiction? when it is the right moment to even tell her. yesterday I started talking to this girl online we only just started talking last night and didn't get a chance to meet yet, but I am worried about the day I will have to tell her about my past... so far the subject didn't come up but when it comes I think honesty is the only way, but it could lead to problems or kill the relationship. I don't know what is going to happen but I have to keep trying.

akram, hmm, if you knew some of my dreams, u would send the white coats holding a 4 foot needle!! deffinately about change, and the preceeding awareness of such. try to find the meaning in reflection, follow your gut instints, because they are usually very correct. take care and follow your dreams! parden the pun!! jamie

and you too!!!! never ever forget that!!!!

Kitt, that's a good idea actually, I don't have to describe every little detail, it is very painfull. if i can sumerize it it will be much better, if she asks for more details then I can tell her as much as she needs to know I guess.. I hope she can see the positive side of it and beleave me when I say that I won't don this kind of stuff again.. thank you kitt for your encourigment and nice words you are always kind and understanding.

that's nice , when you say "love will find me" that's such an encourriging thing to say you know. we are always looking for love, and often in the wrong places, and if we are not alert we will miss the chance when love is looking for us right? how ironic, like imagine someone looking for a needle in a hay stack, even though the needle was always in the drawer that he didn't even check :P

and kitt, congradulations on your aniversity and the graduation of your grand-child, that's fantastic news, I'm so happy for you, keep it strong, and your shin up!