serious please.

mum is a mess. in hospital. sis was down and took her to the nearest public hospital. she rang life-line. her son at home was berating her. other son in respite. it got too much. she has been lying to us all about herself, the state of the house, the notices from community services etc. she has not been eating or taking care of her diabetes etc. severly depressed, says she wants out. i had that preminition dream, and i feel mum will go soon. going with sis in the morning. everything is all expletive at the moment. sis is a mess, i am holding it together, other sis is a mess, brother in respite who is very mentally unstable who rings his mum every day.........don't know if they or we??? e-mailed sis in canada. mum has tried to do everything for those boys, but she did not ask for help and kept everyone away until the expletive hit the fan. mum is ina geriatric psychiatric hospital. will know more tomorrow. she has lost her will. a lot of stuff to do with the boys that have caused this. and mum for being bloody naive. my sis had a break down last week, just got told of her emergency run down she did yesterday. she has just been put on meds herself. EXPLETIVE. see you soon.

now my wallet is missing. can't find it anywhere. was on the table last time. have not been out since hospital and i remember taking it out. i think it has been swiped. i don't need this. thx daesin.

found wallet. phew.

Oh, Jamie, I am so sorry about your mum... I hope she can find her will to live... I am sorry for what you are going through. I know that this is a difficult time for you right now. You are such a sweetheart and don't deserve all this, but I know you will handle it gracefully as always... You are a good mate...

Keep us posted. I will be writing you soon.

Luv and hugs, Karen...

Sounds good Jamie, distractions help. You will get through this... I know it isn't easy... But I know you can handle it... One day at a time is all you can do...

Hugs, Karen...

mum is better. basically a psychotic breakdown. still heavely sedated, but we found her up and eating. she is still all over the shop but is better. dx clinical depression. she will be moved toa general psych facility that i have been in when a bed becomes avail. mum is like 63-not quite in the age bracket of the patients at this facility. we have requested that the manipulating evil one be turned away if he visits at this time. we have also requested no calls as well. certain family members, who will say get your act together, what is wrong with you type stuff. we found her eating, this was great. we are all pulling our resources together to sort stuff out. thx for your support. long day, just got home and had a valium. playing tunes, posted on anxiety sister and e-mailed my sis in canada. i will rest. i sure am looking forward to skyping my fiance tonight. she is worried sick. mum and her are close. see ya soon.

cheers.

My gosh! That is alot to deal with! I'm glad to hear that your
Mom is better. I'm praying that you all get this sorted.
Take good care of yourself too! It looks like they need you!
Hugs to you, Lisa

Great job though, you are managing at the day by day, hour by hour. Nice bounderies set with backup from the family. Feels good to have unity at a time like this with the correct goal in mind.

Peace and Hugs
Trina

been asleep all day. i think sis is going down tomorrow. her and other sis will visit mum and spend some time organizing and cleaning up at tad at mums. i think i will stay home. got my shrink tomorrow. plus i am still angry with my brother. even if he dosen't understand what he has done. but as his oldest brother i offered him nothing. i had to as a man. he is 21 but really twelve. currently not really dx. had aspergers as a kid.........but recovered beautifully. he has been sheltered too long. mummies boy and the other too, however he is getting some stuff sorted. (currently in respite) thx for listening. love 2 all.

Hey Jamie,

You have so much on your plate right now. Remember we are always here for you...

Hugs, Karen...

stuff has happened yesterday. sis gone down this morning. can't worry now. i am trying to chill. had a big sleep, nice shower, coffee whilst playing some live y.j.malmsteen. check in later. my love 2 u all.

Well done by Sis! Glad there are 2 level heads in the family! Rats come out of the wood work when an elder goes down in a family. Sickening.

When Johns Aunt died, he discovered cousins, he never knew about! Some kick in the head, huh?

Stay strong, you and Sis can hold the fort, suggest get a restraining order or what ever it is called over/under there so little imps can not see/approach Mum.

Peace and strength
Trina