Posted 11/9/2012 2:37 PM (GMT -5)
Hi Mick,
Welcome to the depression forum. I am glad that you have joined us but sorry for the reason. I am sorry that your wife feels this way. It sounds like she wants you to be happy, but she doesn't feel that the relationship is right anymore. I don't know whether she will change her mind on that or not.
about the best thing you could do now, is work on you. Maybe start some counseling to get an idea of what you would like to persue with your life now. Mick, I don't know if she is going to come back to you. It kind of sounds like she has her mind made up, and I don't know if that is going to change or not.
Keep plugging along and take life one day at a time. I am glad she is keeping in touch with you about your daughter. I hope that your daughter isn't being effected by everything. She needs to feel secure.
Keep posting, there will be others with their knowledge about things. I hope that things get better for you.
Hugs, Karen