Skipping a funeral because you feel sick?

I feel like hell. And I'm supposed to go to 2 funerals today. One for a family friend and the other for a friend we went to school with. It's also my son's birthday. I feel like I need to be in bed, I've already over done it today and it's not even noon yet. Like usual I woke up before 6 AM after not falling asleep until after midnight. Ugh....

I feel like such an a-hole.

Yuck! It's giving me anxiety thinking about being around all those people and having to stand up and walk. I read something recently from a friend that said "just becuase I can stand up for 5 minutes doesn't mean that I can do it for 10.". So true for me today.

Do any of you have a hard time standing up for more than a few minutes? Or walking 30 feet and feeling like your are going to collapse?

You have a valid reason to be hesitant to go, so if you feel you can't do it, then don't, or just go for part of it.