I know how hard that can be - I didn't realize it when I was going through it (poor hubby though), but I did help take care of my FIL in my home as he battle end-stage Alzheimer's.
I will start a new thread!!
Usually those that are talking about
improvements after herxing are those that are in treatment. While a person can still herx without being in treatment just from helping their bodies to start detoxing, improvements after herxing without being in treatment (and sometimes even being in treatment) may be minimal at best for a while, hang in there. She's got a lot going on most likely, but continuing to help boost her body functions (including detoxing functions) will pay off. Sometimes this part can be the longest part of the journey - waiting for improvements to show.
Keep helping her body to detox right now, and you can slowly start to add in treatments later.
Link to part 2:
www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=30&m=3799857