I had overwhelming head pain too. I have damaged nerves in my face and head from degenerative damage to my neck that went undiagnosed for about
12 years. That caused around 20 migraines a month. Headaches are something I am very used to yet nothing ever felt like the head pain from the Lyme. That was darn near unbearable and I have a very high pain tolerance.
I didn't realize that I had Lyme for 16 months. I had a bullseye but didn't know what it meant. I was rehabbing from major shoulder surgery. That is very painful so attributed my decline to that.
I laid on my sofa with my head wrapped in either a heating pad or ice packs around my head to try to get through it. I also had 3 or 4 what I would call episodes all in the middle of the night were it felt like something very seriously wrong was happening to my brain. The first time I really thought I was going to die and i'm not an alarmist. She could be having something similar.
After my positive iGeneX test my LLMD switched my abx saying let's work on your brain. I went on 500mg of Biaxin twice a day and 300mg of Omnicef twice a day. After a short period of time I rejoined the world for the first time in years.
Maybe you can take that info to your LLMD?
I also have really soft blankets everywhere. The soft texture helps relax me. Not very different than a babies blankie