Posted 1/18/2019 7:51 PM (GMT -5)
I have not been posting anything on here for a while but there is a reason for it. I normally would be glad to be posting on here and i would think nothing of it in any negative way but there is now a big fly in the ointment here or shall I say, there is a big big elephant in the room here with me.
In my quest for help here and in my passing on my thoughts to others here, our son has recognized me on here and he has been reading my postings. He has probably printed out some of my opinions for himself and they now form part of his law suit against us. It started out with wife and me asking him legally (with a lawyer's help) to obtain visitation rights to see our grandsons at least once a months. This legal battle between him and wife / me has gone on now for a year already. Our connection with him has been driving to his place several times a year and leaving birthday gifts for him or for his 2 boys on his doorstep etc. After each such gift giving for the boys and for him, he has called the police to complain about us doing this. We have no restraining order of any sort against us from him.
The last such trip to his house was 1 christmas ago.
Well now he has decided to up the ante and he has asked the courts here to start a case of criminal harassment against dear wife and me and we attended court a week ago to see the launch of his legal action against us.. To cover his legal expenses, we believe that he is using government lawyers because he has declared himself as poor. As part of his proof against us, he has listed my postings on here as evidence against wife and me to prove his case against us in denying our right to have contact with our grandsons.
If hi finds this posting on here, I would like him to know that yes, his dad has lyme disease and this lyme disease has gone into his right knee, and that this disability has now reduced his dad to walking with 2 canes in hand and unable to do any stairs up or down at this time. The prognosis is not hopefull as any of the protocols i am following here do not seem to be improving the matter. If things get worse, i am looking forward to the future in a wheelchair. This legal action that he has started against us is definately not in the interest of improving our health at the age we are at (75 and 70). Wife and i suffer many sleepless nights in pain from our individual cases of lyme. It is no fun going to be with frustrating thoughts on our minds.
If anyone can relate to wife and me, i welcome thoughts on here and individual private message you may send my way. xfmlg has now been decoded,. sigh in frustration with the stress ever increasing.....