Untreated UTI, leaving to Kidney failure in Lyme?

I have a UTI, I suspect it because I peed myself because I couldn’t hold my bladder, my urine smells bad, I pee too much, the side under my rib cage where my kidney is I feel pain, pain in my vagina, itchy, dehydrated quick, the doctors found white blood cells in my vagina . I’m scared it’s getting worse and I missed my doctors appointment online because I had to pee and now I have to wait a long time to get back into the doctors so I want to self treat. I’m wondering because I know some of Buhner herbs causes kidney and liver damage I should discontinue all herbs except for some and go on a “ kidney/liver cleanse “ diet “. What are your thoughts? What would be a good meal plan? I’m thinking of like drinking cranberry, parsley , dandelion juice , drinking nettle infused tea often and eat foods that help kidney which haven’t figured out yet ( I’m also vegan ) and make a routine of juicing , tea drinks and try to treat my UTI with goldenseal and other herbs . I SUSPECT I HAVE MYCOPLASMA UTI. I’m thinking if I discontinue my herbs though that my symptoms would flare and only make it worse but I have a feeling that to cleanse and treat it I have to discontinue most herbs. Maybe just continue like Japanese knotweed? What do you all think? I need opinions please and thank you!

my partner had a UTI that spread to her kidneys because the primary care doctor gave her an inappropriate antibiotic for the UTI the first time around. It was serious and she was bedridden with the pain.

if you have good reason to suspect you have an infection that has spread to your kidneys I would be going directly to ER and not waiting for a scheduled telephone appointment - or at the very least ask for an emergency appointment with the primary care doctor (they usually have slots for those for things that cannot wait - eg severe angina like pain, acute attacks, ear or eye infections).

Milk thistle is supposed to be protective for liver function but I haven't heard anything about it helping kidneys.

My personal feeling is, if you think you've identified a herb giving you a toxic reaction, it's probably better to stop the herb rather than to try to cancel it out with something else.