Posted 7/3/2013 9:55 PM (GMT -5)
ddd45 I would be mad too!
A few years after I had my surgery I got a letter from my GI that said "It has been 2 years since your previous colonoscopy. You are due for one this year. Please call to schedule"
So I called about it, so they would take me off the list and I told the woman I wouldn't be doing the test. She pulled my records up and said, "ok but it's really important to get checked for colon cancer, it can happen to anyone and it's easily detectable. you really should have the test"
I said, "i know it's important, but I am pretty sure it can't happen to me" Now she had my records up, and it clearly says in there that I have an ostomy and I know she was looking at them cause she told me she was but she said, "please rethink it, it can happen to anyone" I finally said, "not people without colons"
She realized then what was going on and apolgoized. I know she was being nice and thoughtful and wasn't a nurse or dr, but it still amazed me.
Another time I went to the dr about a bladder infection,and she asked me about the surgery. And I told her and she said, "and they removed your rectum?" and I said yes, and she lifted my shirt to press on stomach and she said, "and where did they put it?"
I just looked at her cause I didn't know how to answer that. She said, "your ostomy, where is your ostomy?" she realized what she had said, but she was trying to ask where the bag was so she wouldnt press on it.
But the one that made me the maddest was when I went for a consult on something totally unrelated and it had a box to check if you had ever had certain problems, and one of them was auto-immune diseases, so i checked yes. Well I went in and the girl asked me what it was and I said UC but it's gone now. And she was like I have to call the nurse for this, so she called the nurse I got on the phone with her and she said, "We can't allow you to do this because of the UC" I said, i didn't have it anymore and she says "oh but it can always come back" I said not without a colon, then she said something to the effect of you have to still have something there and the UC will come back in it. I literally just walked out of the office after that.