Dad being hateful

My dad has Parkinson's, this is his second fall breaking his left hip now right hip in just a little over a year. He arrived at a different nursing home/rehab on Monday from the hospital after 1 week in the hospital. Today I got a horrible call from my mom stating that my dad was being hateful and wanted to talk to me. I called him and all he did was yell, saying I want out of here come get me. I want to die, I will break my neck, if you don't come I don't want to talk to you ever again. Yes it hurt to hear him say these things, I tried reasoning with him telling him its not his time to die, to work his legs so he can go home, but to no avail, after taking to him and crying for hours I get another call saying they are taking him back to the hospital as they cannot handle him, he is fighting the nurses, refuses to take his meds won't eat, I just don't know what to do. Please understand I live 9 hours away and work. I am the closest child in travel time. Help please

Pat55, I am so sorry for all that you are going through with your Dad. I feel like a lost soul myself right now. My Dad has PD. He suddenly can't stand and walk. He also shows signs of PD Dementia. Personally, I think he had a TIA that didn't show up on the MRI? I just don't understand how he could go from walking and standing independently to his current status. Anyway, he was in the hospital for 10 days and he said horrible things to me...like how could I do this to him and I told him I love him and he said well I don't love you. It's so very hard and he seems to just be getting worse with the PD, so perhaps it does get worse quickly. He is suddenly incontinent with urine. We can't understand his speech. He has lost over 20 lbs. This disease seems to attack everyone differently. It is evil and wicked, as you know. I found this sight, because I was looking into hospice and trying to plan for the future. I don't know if you can with this horrible disease. I wish I knew what to tell you. I'm so sorry for your pain and the distance must be so very hard for you. I will keep you in my prayers Pat. Keep us posted on how you are doing. Best wishes to you, Tedi