Dear Olee:
Sorry to hear that you got the news that so many people on this forum have received. Believe me, we understand your feelings.
It is terrible news but the silver lining is that it was caught early and that prognosis for a cure is excellent.
There are many options you should consider, as you will undoubtedly hear from others and read in other threads on this forum. May I recommend an excellent book to start, "Dr. Patrick Walsh's Guide to Surviving Prostate Cancer". There are plenty of others but this is a very good primer and place to start.
It is great that you are getting other opinions. My recommendation is to look at ALL of the options so that you will have some peace of mind with your final decision. It's confusing between open surgery, da vinci, external radiation, seeds, HIFU, etc. but knowing what is available is due diligence for all of us. At the very least you should talk with an experienced (250+ procedures) da vinci surgeon and an experienced radiation oncologist to make sure you have explored the basic options.
Good luck and let us know how things progress.