I was like most of you in that my penis was very short after the cath came out and seems like it got shorter and had to go looking for it before I could pee. After stimulation, that is what I could get a hold of, it maybe grew to about
two to three inches but that was all. With meds and stimulation, maybe four inches flacid still. Muse helped a little more but was not the answer. At about
three months, VED made the little guy look like a blue monster filling the erection tube (WOW - nice). It was nice that I could make it at least look big. Out of the tube it looked great, purple and cold. After a few weeks of the VED, the foreskin completely covered the head like I was not circumsized as well - a little scary. The erections were relitively straight out and the length was at 6" like it use to be before OP except it was oversize and the angle was not upward like before.
Next the injections came along giving me a good erection with fairly good girth and length (maybe 5.5") but the old boy wanted to hang downward which made it more difficult for iC. Today after three years post-op, still no natural erections, the erections are firm enough for penetration, length stilll at 5.5", girth reduced and angle downward which causes slippage in engagement and at times falls out of the vagina. The muscles, tendons or ? are not what they use to be before OP.
I think it is time to go back to the VED to get my girth and length back. It's not easy but this is the way it is. I believe periodic stimulation has helped which does not have to go to orgasm as Mulhall states. Keep at it (pun...) and don't get discouraged. I still like the little guy even though it is sagging & hanging down and so does my wife...
Marc