1. Accepting the fact that I might have prostate cancer was a slow process for me. My physician had started including the PSA test as part of my annual physical exam when I was about
50. All was apparently well for quite a few years, but after I entered my 60's, the PSA number started creeping up. At about
that time, I also developed symptoms of urinary urgency. I attributed these things to an enlarged prostate. After all, my older brother was experiencing the same symptoms, and his 3 biopsies were all negative. He was put on Flomax and, PRESTO! Problems solved. So, when my PSA took a jump beyond 6.0, it was with a degree of reluctance that I finally took my physician's advice to talk to a urologist.
Oh, I also had started working part-time at our local funeral home, and we did a couple of services for men about my age who had died from prostate cancer. Their deaths were on my mind, proof that prostate cancer actually kills people.
At the uro's office, a DRE revealed a palpable tumor on the left side of the prostate, and the undeniable conclusion was that I would need a biopsy to rule prostate cancer in or rule it out. A biopsy showed six cores positive for Gleason 7, all on the left side. After surgery, more cancer was found on the right side.
2. I would have chosen brachytherapy were it not for the fact that my prostate was quite large, and so I wasn't really a candidate. I also considered radiation, but gradually came to the decision to have robotic surgery, knowing that if the cancer turned out to be NOT confined to the prostate, radiation could still be an option to "mop up" whatever might remain.
3. Thankfully, no secondary treatments have been necessary.
4. I am fortunate to be feeling very well, indeed. My periodic PSA tests have all come back undetectable. I've been perfectly continent from about the 8th week after surgery. Honestly, I was surprised when sexual function didn't return. In spite of my uro's warnings, I always felt I would be just fine, and quickly. That hasn't turned out to be the case, but if that's what I had to give up to get rid of an intermediate risk cancer, well, so be it. I can deal with it. Meds for a bit of high blood pressure, and the fact that I've developed a bit of Type 2 diabetes surely haven't helped the ED situation, and I sometimes wonder if I might not be dealing with ED even without the prostatectomy and its after-effects. The cancer and the surgery are fading to a distant memory, and in retrospect it was much, much harder dealing with two herniated discs in my neck that cropped up in November 2010, just a few month after the prostate surgery. The bulging discs were effacing the spinal cord. The pain and the arm paralysis were unlike anything I've ever had to deal with before or since. That injury has left me with less flexibility in my neck, and I've developed a bit of a rotator cuff problem, but for the most part I don't feel anything like 68 until I look in a mirror.