Thanks for your replies.
I am 54 yo. My father died of prostate cancer at the age of 59 (20 years ago), so when I received the positive G8 biopsy results I was extremely anxious about my prognosis. Do to the family history when my PSA went from 1.6 to 2.2 my internist sent me to the urologist, and when the PSA subsequently went from 2.0 to 3.2 I knew I had to have a biopsy. The scary thing is the urologist was pushing the biopsy, but did not tell me it was absolutely necessary. As soon as I got the biopsy results I found an experienced surgeon and asked him, "how fast can you get me on the table?".
I first saw Dr. Benjamin Lee at Tulane University on October 9 and he completed the surgery on Oct 15; robotic radical prostatectomy. Nerve sparing was not an option due to the G8. Following my Oct 9 visit I underwent lab work, EKG, chest x-ray, abdominal CT scan with and without contrast, full body bone scan and got surgical clearance from my internist. The doctor worked me into his surgical schedule so the procedure began at 3PM and I woke up in recovery at approx. 7:30 PM. The procedure took approximately 4 hours. Dr. Lee has done hundreds of such procedures so I am convinced he took his time and did the surgery right absent any surgical errors, which is illustrated by the post sx pathology and current level of continence; however, I wrote to a friend several days ago who underwent RP in 2009 and told him when they removed the catheter (two weeks post op) for the first time in over 50 years I put on diapers. As you all know, whatever your personal situation, this is one hell of a journey. It is like being run over by an emotional and physical freight train. It is scary, creates anxiety and causes you to instantaneously change the way you view life.
Currently I still have abdominal soreness and stiffness, although it is getting better. I am happy with the current level of continence and have control, however, the degree of control is variable and needs work.
Family, friends and reading posts on this forum helped me through some difficult days.