Trimix and Women's reactions

My wife and I have been married for 33 years and I've posted before about the disappointment I feel using trimix due to lack of spontaneity and romance. We struggle on as best we can being together for so long. But both of us have medical issues and I just wonder sometimes about what would happen if I outlived my wife- I mean what would it be like dating again with a new person given the need to use trimix for intimacy? I really think there would be a lot of women who wouldn't be interested or might even be repulsed by the idea of injections. I know my wife is somewhat repulsed even now. So I would just like to take an informal survey from the guys here on healingwell who were single at the time of surgery and ended up using trimix for the rest of their life. What has your dating experience been like? I'm not talking about guys that were married or had girlfriends already before surgery, that's a different matter of love and loyalty. But what about you guys out there on eharmony or ourtime or whereever  that have attempted to meet new people? Please be honest even if it is painful. I really would like to know what its like out there in the dating world for guys like us........

I recently met a lady 3 months ago after a few dates I had to tell her about my PC before she thought I was strange kissing cuddling and then stop.
She was great we talked about oral meds which I explained did not work but we and I mean we could try injections and they worked we were both so happy now we can have a normal intimate relationship
So I suppose it depend on the lady we are all different some accept it like my friend other I'm sure would not.
tony w

A woman who would refuse to continue dating me because I needed to use injections probably isn't a woman I'd want to continue dating anyhow.

-Gedman

My boyfriend is 66, I am 46.  We had a VERY healthy sex life before his diagnosis.  He had surgery in Jan 2013.  All great with the cancer, but still struggling with ED and some drips.  I loved him before and love him just as much afterward (probably more) and would never consider leaving.  We still probably have sex (in all ways possible) more than most married folks.  We use trimix, pills... whatever, and take things as they come.  He gets frustrated sometimes, but most of the time we enjoy each other and laugh (a lot). It's all in your outlook.  From a female's perspective, the most important thing is you cannot get hung up on what was and what you don't have anymore.  Life is too short.  Depression and being a debbie downer is more of a turnoff than the actual problem itself.  Have no fear... there are plenty of us women out there who don't have an issue with any of this.  Just have a sense of humor.  Be honest.  Be confident. Uninhibited.  Those are the biggest turn ons for women anyway.

Tony W and Bigal- You guys like me and others have gotten this cussed Peyronies after the fact of all the other side effects.I have about a 50% dorsal curve and sometimes a twist to the right. I just keep going with the VED and the cock rings. After 4 years they are starting to cause some irritation to the scrotum when active more then twice a week.My questions are 1. Will the injections aggravate more Peyronies(scar tissue)and 2. Do they simply make the flaccid penis hard or is there a size increase like before ED. Thanks Inkhorn

1. Will the injections aggravate more Peyronies(scar tissue)and 2. Do they simply make the flaccid penis hard or is there a size increase like before ED. Thanks Inkhorn

1) Talk to your uro. That is a much-argued subject.

2) You can't make the flaccid penis hard without filling it with blood, so "yes" and "yes".

Trimix creates an erection that is larger than what I can accomplish with the pump. I've been using Trimix for about 18 months, and other than a near-trip to the ER at 4 hours in the early days, have had no problems.