Hey DJ...I don't have bladder cancer, but I'd be happy to talk to your wife. As you can see in my signature, I fight battles on multiple fronts. I would like to see an "Endometriosis" or just plain ole "Women's Health" section in the HW forums. I come to the Prostate Cancer forum because for better or worse, this seems closest to my disease. I may not be what your wife needs, but I'll surely try my best to help her=)
My email's always open. I'll leave the light on...
~~Dixie