Posted 2/24/2015 4:13 PM (GMT -5)
James,
My biopsy report was similar to yours. I had G7(3+4), and 5 out of 12 cores positive. My percentages were a lot higher than yours; but my PSA was only 5.16. I had the RALP. I liked the shorter recovery time. Not having had the open, I don't know about less pain; but I had little to no pain with the RALP.
One advantage to surgery that I liked; you get a full pathology report of the prostate. Since they remove it, they can find out just exactly what you had. The biopsy is known to miss some of the tumors. In my case, I found out that I had Gleason 8 instead of 7. That bumped me up into high-risk cancer, and made my urologist more careful about checking my PSA, post surgery. Because of that, I found out last month that my PSA has now become detectable, after almost 3 years of being in the Zero Club. With a G7(3+4), he might not have had me check every 3 months for the first year, and every 4 months since. This way, we can jump on this right away.
I won't kid you about side-effects. I still have some minor incontinence, and full ED. I did have some ED before surgery, caused by my having Type II diabetes. And they will tell you that whatever function you had before surgery, expect it to be less after. In my case, it completely killed it. But I look at the big picture. I was willing to give that up for the knowledge of what I was dealing with, definitively. Surgery gives you that. You will know exactly what you are dealing with.
Some guys are okay with not knowing exactly what they have. Radiation or brachy is good for them. The side-effects are generally better in the short-term (although long-term, radiation seems to approach the same side-effects as surgery - still up for debate).
Whichever route you choose, just be aware that your life has changed forever. You are now a member of the 'C'-club. Once in, you never really get out. The important thing, for you, is that YOU settle in YOUR mind what YOU want. Get as much information as you can. This forum is a great place to find that info. Get Walsh's book. Another good book is "Winning the Battle Against Prostate Cancer" by Gerald Chodak. Knowledge is your friend right now. And don't let anyone rush you into a decision. The good thing about this Beast is that it is slow growing. You have time to make an informed decision. But once you make that decision, don't look back; or try to second guess yourself. We could all play the "What if?" game. Make a decision and go with it.
I hope this helps. Keep asking questions. There are a lot of knowledgeable guys here, who have been where you are now. Don't be afraid to use their knowledge. Keep us informed of what you decide. We all might have different opinions on which is the "best" option to choose; but once someone makes that decision, most guys here will support you in it.
Best of luck!
-Bob