Hi Northern Lights,
Sounds like similar aches and pains
kegel exercise with the Catheter in ...that would seem painful
At 3 weeks post surgery I find the sitting pain is not a big issue
and the sting every now and then when urinating is gone.
I now sleep all night until 5am, continence is good except for an odd time
when I forget to do the kegel exercise getting up from the couch.
I was just saying today their is something different ..hard to explain it,
perhaps I'm more passive or maybe that's just low energy after the surgery
I think getting off the pain killers was the best thing as it effected bowel movement
and I think that contributed to the sitting pain.
Just wondering if their is anything for the surgery site to stop that itch feeling.
Sounds like you are well on your way to recovery
James