Thanks for all the insightful replies !
First of all, I hope that someone seeks a "second opinion" quicker than I did --- I'm getting close to celebrating my third Christmas since being diagnosed. That seems like a milestone compared to where I started with my original diagnosis a couple of years ago.
I formed tight bonds with the doctors at my local hospital and have been very pleased with my care. Here was the breakthrough moment in my thinking, though ... a close friend of mine asked me, "Are you being LIMITED by your LOYALTIES to your current doctors ?" That phrase really resonated with me ... the truth of it was that I WAS being limited by my loyalties to my local doctors --- and this friend felt that it was important for me to go to Mayo Clinic for additional advice, a consultation, a SECOND OPINION ... and peace of mind. Why I didn't go sooner ... I don't know ... I believe that sometimes things have to be put into your life's path before you can follow the trail.
Madagascar has asked some excellent follow-up questions ... I'll do my best to answer as follows:
1. I made my first call to Mayo Clinic in July 2015. I told the telephone receptionist that I had prostate cancer and she just transferred me to ONCOLOGY. They asked that I have ALL my medical records sent to their department and wait for them to telephone me back. A few days later, the oncology department called me back and told me they didn't feel that they would add or change anything to my care plan. They did an assessment of my medical records, which I appreciated greatly. I thought that was the end of my story with contacting Mayo Clinic. Lesson Learned ... you CAN have your current medical records sent to Mayo Clinic and they WILL do an assessment and then telephone you back in a few days with a recommendation as to whether or not they feel that they can add something to your current medical care plan.
2. After that, in a ONE IN A MILLION chance conversation with one of my best friends, I casually mentioned that I had always heard tremendous things about
Dr. Eugene KWON at Mayo Clinic. This friend was thunderstruck and told me that her relative worked directly with Dr. Kwon --- so my friend telephoned her relative and because of this connection, my records were FAXED over from oncology to urology at Mayo Clinic, which is Dr. Kwon's department. I felt very fortunate to have such a direct link to Dr. Kwon, without even realizing it the past two years --- just through a chance conversation with my good friend. I felt like that was a sign ... encouraging me to follow-up and go to Mayo Clinic.
3. My contact was made in July 2015 and my appointment with Dr. Kwon ended up being the first week of October 2015. A waiting period of three to four months would be typical, I believe. I realize my path to Dr. Kwon resulted from a special set of circumstances, for which I have a lot of gratitude. There is an amazing team of urologists and oncologists at Mayo Clinic. In the end, I learned that I would be best served in the urology department of the GONDA BUILDING at Mayo Clinic. Several of you have been there, I know. I just booked a hotel room right across the street from the GONDA BUILDING at Mayo Clinic and walked to my appointments and scans from the hotel. Lesson LEARNED: Convenience !
4. Dr. Kwon is known as a trailblazer in the field of prostate cancer. There are many online articles and You Tube videos about
his work in prostate cancer, which are easy to find online. I realized on the day of my appointment that there were patients there from across the country and even from across the globe there to see him, as well as other urologists in the same department, all with sterling credentials.
5. I realize I will learn more at upcoming appointments with Dr. Kwon. We did form an immediate connection at this first appointment. I feel I will learn much more from him at future appointments. He wants to meet with me again in three months, after I do some additional tests and scans to compare to the ones we just took lately. He stated that he does not always follow the "conventional" protocol of ordering just six infusions of Taxotere treatments, which I had completed last year. He is willing to order additional infusions if needed. He also is willing to mix in other components to the chemotherapy "cocktail" based on the needs of the patient. My local doctors have never mentioned any deviation from the standard chemo protocol, so this was a very new possibility for my future. Dr. Kwon mentioned that he can order other mixtures of chemo from other facilities, even outside the Mayo Clinic system, and has done so. I had the impression that he believes in very aggressive treatments for those of us with advanced prostate cancer. I have the impression he is willing to take some risks for those of us with advanced or hard-to-treat cases. I think I need that right now --- and I have some close friends in my same boat that are seeking that, as well. We're all about
50 years old, give or take.
6. I was diagnosed in my late 40s and I am nicknamed "the rare bird" when I visit my local doctors. All the rest of their prostate cancer patients are much older than I am. When I visited with Dr. Kwon, he stated that he sees about
200 patients that are in my age range with similar statistics, so he has that range of experience with them already. Two hundred patients about
like me ?!! That seemed like a significant factor for me to consider. Those of us diagnosed at a younger age often have tricky forms of prostate cancer. I think I need him on my team, going forward.
7. Dr. Kwon telephoned my local oncologist while I was sitting there with him at Mayo Clinic. He reached out to him in a conference call in my presence and formed a partnership with my usual oncologist right on the spot. That impressed me --- they are going to work TOGETHER on my case. I felt very fortunate in that moment and that "partnership" occurred right in front of my eyes.
8. I told Dr. Kwon I had done the six cycles of Taxotere chemotherapy last year, following the released of the CHAARTED study. He told me that he had used Taxotere immediately for advanced cases of prostate cancer, going back 10 years, way before the release of the CHAARTED study. Again, I had the impression that he is a trailblazer, an innovator, perhaps a bit of a maverick in his approach to advanced prostate cancer. He seems to go beyond the "textbook" --- this is my impression from our first consultation together.
9. Dr. Kwon believes in using scans and images plus lab work numbers (such as PSA) to make his treatment decisions. My local doctors typically just look at PSA to make most of their decisions. For example, I started ZYTIGA just a couple of months ago and that decision was solely based on a PSA score spike, I realize in retrospect. My local doctors didn't order any scans to pinpoint where new trouble spots might be emerging in my case.
10. Dr. Kwon DID state that even though I am an advanced cancer patient, he would PERHAPS be willing at some point, to have my prostate removed, if it becomes warranted. It was not a promise, just a possibility. My local doctors have stated that they would NEVER even consider that approach, no matter what. Dr. Kwon said, "I can have your prostate taken out with a golf club, without any problem, if that's what we need to do down the road." He said that keeping my prostate intact for the time being might actually be beneficial, saying that there might be some reasons to keep the prostate intact for some future treatment options that he might consider. We didn't have time to pursue that avenue of conversation right then. He did state the detailed MRI of the prostate that he ordered while I was at Mayo Clinic showed that my prostate was GREATLY reduced in size now, from all the ADT shots and my past chemo treatments, and so forth. He was focusing his attention more on the PET-CHOLINE scans, to assess my lung lesions from past and present.
10. One more thing to add --- I already have an online medical account with Mayo Clinic. My lab results were posted within a very short time and the consultation notes from Dr. Kwon were also posted very quickly.
The main point of this thread has been --- to strongly consider a second opinion --- and to seek the expertise afforded by some of the wonderful major medical facilities we have scattered around the country. I learned a great lesson from the gentleman from the country of CYPRESS who sat next to me in the waiting room ... and he stated to me, "I have traveled 6,000 miles from my home country, because of the level of medical expertise you have right here in your home country."
That statement made a huge impact on me --- worthy of sharing with those of you following this thread. I wish the gentleman from Cypress knew that his wisdom is now being shared with others !
Continue to reach out --- do your research --- become your own advocate --- seek broader horizons if you need to, as I felt I needed to do for my particular case --- and keep facing forward.
Stay strong in the battle, my friends,
Cyclone
Post Edited (ISU-CycloneFan) : 10/6/2015 6:54:02 PM (GMT-6)