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Galileo
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Posted 2/15/2016 10:42 AM (GMT -5)
A decade ago I had a 5 year old and an 11 year old.
My toddler is now a teenager, my older son is in the military. My hair is rapidly turning gray and thinning. My spouse has retired. My knees sound like bubble wrap. The first thing I reach for in the morning is eyeglasses, then coffee. A fun evening is Jeopardy and the latest National Geographic. I'm getting old.
It was ten years ago yesterday that I met my wife for a Valentine's Day lunch and told her the news from my urologist visit that morning: I had prostate cancer.
Two months later, a dance with Da Vinci, yada yada, PSA came roaring back, so SRT to the rescue. If all goes well, next September will mark 10 years with an undetectable PSA and I will have a little celebration.
BTW, I don't have any side effects that I attribute to the SRT, although I have some ED from the surgery, it's not insurmountable.
I have the beginnings of some cardiac issues, which, I suppose will demand more of my attention in the future than prostate cancer. I'm under no illusion--no one gets out of here alive. But I'm very happy that I didn't check out before seeing my kids grow up.
"You seek what life is in death,
Now find it in air that once was breath.
New names unknown, old names gone:
Till time end bodies, but souls none.
Reader! then make time, while you be,
But steps to your eternity."
--Baron Brooke Fulke Greville, "Caelic 83" (from Paul Kalanithi's When Breath Becomes Air)
jpenn44
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Posted 2/15/2016 10:58 AM (GMT -5)
Fabulous story...and congrats on your success and amazing attitude!!!
Here is to watching your kids accomplish much more...and you also!
Pratoman
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Posted 2/15/2016 11:30 AM (GMT -5)
Galileo, great post, and here's to you getting to that 10 year celebration, uneventfully!
60Michael
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Posted 2/15/2016 11:31 AM (GMT -5)
Great to hear from you and also great to hear about
your PCa taking a backseat to other issues. Good poem Galileo.
Michael
BillyBob@388
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Posted 2/15/2016 11:56 AM (GMT -5)
Congrats Galileo!
JDill
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Posted 2/15/2016 1:33 PM (GMT -5)
Great news for us newbies on the site. I am 4 months in on this trip and stories of success are a blessing.
Tim G
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Posted 2/15/2016 6:37 PM (GMT -5)
Galileo--
Thanks for updating us and giving us the opportunity to congratulate you on ten years. Having prostate cancer may go away, but having had prostate cancer never does. Take care and keep in touch.
Krg75
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Posted 2/15/2016 6:58 PM (GMT -5)
Great story! Wishing you success on that 10 year test!
InTheShop
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Posted 2/15/2016 11:08 PM (GMT -5)
PARTY TIME!!!
will there be beer?
at least a cake???
Andrew
JFL1957
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Posts : 158
Posted 2/16/2016 7:27 AM (GMT -5)
Galileo,
Thanks for sharing. I'm not quite 2 years into my journey, but I would gladly follow your path if I'm allowed. It seems I'm on the same trail. And I have some sciatic nerve issues added just for fun.
RandyJoe
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Posted 2/16/2016 9:33 AM (GMT -5)
Congratulations! Here's to your future grandchildren and to you...spoiling them rotten.
samster
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Posted 2/16/2016 9:42 AM (GMT -5)
Congratulations and all the best in the years ahead.
pattersson
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Posted 2/16/2016 3:49 PM (GMT -5)
Happy to join in the congratulations. I started my journey pretty much the safe time as you and here we both are, happily in the zero club
island time
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Joined : Dec 2014
Posts : 2403
Posted 2/16/2016 10:11 PM (GMT -5)
A story close to my heart. You don't see alot of guys 10 years post SRT around here.
I'm glad to hear it.
Congratulations.
We're all playing with house money.
dsmc
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Joined : Jul 2008
Posts : 152
Posted 3/5/2016 8:05 AM (GMT -5)
Hi Galileo, I'm glad to see your stats!
I ran across HW's bookmark and thought I would check on everybody. There are lots of new folks and some of the old gang!
As of Feb. 17th I was 11 years out on my surgery and am 8 years out on SRT. I am still less than 0.04 on PSA.
Time really flies when your having fun.....my youngest son was an 8 year old little leaguer at diagnosis and now he's a freshman at The University of Alabama,Birmingham. Feeling blessed!
Everyone have a great weekend
David
Howard3569
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Posted 3/5/2016 2:30 PM (GMT -5)
I love it. I may to facing SRT so I am inspired.
Break60
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Posted 3/5/2016 4:07 PM (GMT -5)
Very happy story ! Nice to hear good news .
Bob
Cyclone-ISU
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Posted 3/6/2016 4:15 PM (GMT -5)
Dear Galileo,
Your post is inspiring to everyone walking this path ---
I'm sure during that Valentine's Day lunch with your wife, you could never have envisioned how well you are doing now ... all these years later.
I guess when I first got diagnosed, that question ran through my mind that maybe runs through everyone's mind upon diagnosis: "Will I even make it to Christmas?" Then you begin listening to your doctor and the words TREATMENTS ARE AVAILABLE start to resonate in your mind ... and you begin to walk down what I call "Treatment Trail" ... and here we all are TOGETHER, supporting each other every step of the way ...
So --- from your post --- right now, I'm giving thanks for the TEN Christmas trees you have lived to see since you were diagnosed --- the TEN extra birthday cake candles on your birthday cakes --- the fact that you've had to RE-NEW your driver's license since being diagnosed --- that you've likely had the privilege of teaching both your children how to drive a car --- that you've probably taught your sons how to tie a necktie, as fathers often do for their sons --- that you've perhaps attended ANOTHER high school class reunion or two these past few years --- that you've taken some trips and seen more of the country --- that you've enjoyed some special family events and holidays these past TEN years --- and that you have an entire DECADE of accomplishments to reflect back upon since your diagnosis. That's a LOT of LIVING --- and from your post, I can tell you count yourself fortunate, Galileo.
I know for myself, I have a lot more gratitude for the simple blessings that a day can bring --- I pay attention more to the smaller things in life, perhaps once overlooked --- I try to reflect upon the value of each day now, rather than rushing through each day like I used to --- my favorite time of day now is sunset --- that's a great time of day for me to reflect on the value of each day now --- and I always try to pause for a moment each evening now and admire the sunset. The sunset is different, every single evening ... and each day has its own value, I've discovered. Galileo, you have been given the gift of thousands of sunsets since your diagnosis --- and still looking FORWARD to more !
Thanks for a meaningful post, Galileo --- and here's to more SUNSETS for each one of us here !
A handshake of friendship,
"Cyclone Fan" From Iowa State University
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