I suggest we drop the personal insults and name - calling completely, children.
While actively surveiling your stage 3+ prostate cancer grow to a stage 4 may be entertaining, it may also be a fatal choice of non-action.
You have a Gleason 7(4+3) cancer in your body. If you do nothing it will eat you...perhaps slowly, maybe more rapidly.
I
had have that too. I got the surgery, the Leuprolide chemo AND the radiation one after the other. That has not gotten rid of the cancer so I will most likely have to go back on Leuprolide chemo in the near future.
Gather your facts and listen to the doctors you trust, then do what you think is the best choice for you. Oh yeah - cross your fingers too.