I think the biological line that must be crossed to qualify as a metastasis is that the cells can survive outside of the prostatic environment. Sometimes, tumors that bulge out from the prostate capsule bring the prostatic environment with them (stage T3). Sometimes, tissue is left behind (positive margin) or they shed true mets that seed and grow in tissues of local organs (Stage T4) or local LNs (stage N1). Sometimes, mets have been found in the prostates of men who had them removed after distant metastases have been found - indicating that they went out and came back. The PET scan only shows the cancer that is big enough to detect, but most metastases are much too small to detect. You can talk to your RO about
whether it is safe to give some additional SBRT or brachytherapy to just that spot - maybe that can delay progression, maybe not.
There are some data suggesting that salvage radiation doses may not be high enough:
/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2016/11/dose-escalation-for-salvage-radiation.htmlCHAARTED showed there was no benefit to chemo unless there was a "high volume" of metastases. They defined that as the presence of visceral metastases or four or more bone lesions with at least one beyond the vertebral bodies and pelvis.