I wonder if it has been discussed here, but these two guys (a physiotherapist and a specialist nurse) indicate that kegeling is not just kegeling, however, 3 parts of the pelvic floor are players in that game: The part that feels around the anus, the part that feels "in the middle" (the perineum) and the part which kind of "clamps" the penis. (Or should clamp it ...)
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And actually it is especially by controlling the 2 last ones you will gain control of urination.
Anyway: kegeling is not just one forcefull tightening down there, you must know the difference between these 3 parts of the pelvic floor.
The interesting part in the long video you'll find (imo) from 4:40 to about
16:00.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZlCTRhQQ_g8
and:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QHwVglPQR_w
(I am not sure that these links will work as written here, so I write them below once more for copy-pasting
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZlCTRhQQ_g8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QHwVglPQR_w[url]