kukukajoo-
Unbelievably frustrating, considering the stakes. When I go on doctor visits with patients and I know that some things may be new or controversial, I try to get the patient to email the doctor key journal articles in advance of the meeting. That way everyone is literally on the same page by the time I get there. Of course this assumes that (A) the doctor allows patients to email him such stuff, and (B) he will look at it before the meeting. I've found that the doctors who respond best to this approach are the ones who least need it
Sometimes ya just can't win.