TEBOZO said...
I am a very young 67-year-old and cannot see myself in a happy marriage tired and on the couch. I have scheduled a surgery date on January 15
Hi Tebozo and welcome. Looks like we have hijacked this thread with responses to you so apologies to the OP. In any case, as others have suggested, if you will post some specifics about
your case we will be able to respond better. It's obvious you want to avoid the ADT but there is a real possibility of some serious SE's with your upcoming surgery that might not be so happy for the new marriage either, e.g. a limp willy and diapers. So, if you want some specific advice and support give us more info and we are glad to help.
Jim