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Posted 11/18/2019 10:55 AM (GMT -5)
The dreadful Diagnosis and MRI result "anniversary" date, came and went last week. I try not to look back and remember, no reason to do that, can't change it, but it is ever present. That day I was told "You have a very serious case of Prostate Cancer. Metastasized, with 4 bone mets, PSA 71 with Gleason score of 4+3, core samples up to 80% involved."
It's not a week I really celebrate, cant celebrate that diagnosis, but maybe I should. Because I am celebrating life everyday, 5 years plus into remission, the kind that all of us with Advanced PC always dream of. I have left that initial Urologist's prognosis in the dust. I have been very fortunate, but I have lost friends that have not been as fortunate.

Weeks like this make me think of where I've been, but more importantly, where I am going. So great to have found this site, and all the posters(and posers) who keep it real.
I understand the statement that cancer was the best thing to happen to me, insofar as the focus it has brought to my life,and being able to separate and recognize what is really important. My Faith, my wife Rose, my family, my friends, which I consider all of you!

Special thoughts to Rockyfords, you are definitely one of my heroes! Love you Brother, Love you all, Keep the faith!
Wings aka Dan in So Cal
Posted 11/18/2019 10:58 AM (GMT -5)
Wings,
Definitely worth celebrating. Congratulations! Very inspiring for me personally.
Posted 11/18/2019 11:36 AM (GMT -5)
Time for an epic celebration!

Keep it going!
Andrew
Posted 11/18/2019 11:44 AM (GMT -5)
"... my friends, which I consider all of you!"

Right back at you, Wings of Eagles!

We have a number of regular posters here who, again and again, distinguish themselves by presenting a viewpoint, a feeling, or a pearl of wisdom that uplifts us all, and makes the day better.

For someone like InTheShop, it's his knowledge, good humor, and supportive outlook that make him such a valuable member of our group.

For you, Wings, it's your good nature, your optimism, and the fine example you show of how the power of faith can so positively influence a person's character for the good.

Whenever I see that you have made a post here, I am always eager to call it up and read it, because I know it will be full of insight and hope!

I'm glad you are with us and I hope you stay!
Posted 11/18/2019 12:05 PM (GMT -5)
Wonderful post, Dan.

A PCa diagnosis can (should) be a wake up call, not only for medical knowledge and treatment, but for what's REALLY important in our lives....which is so more than mere survival, IMHO.

You sir, are a shining example...keep on keeping on!
Posted 11/18/2019 12:09 PM (GMT -5)
right on Dan!
Posted 11/18/2019 2:31 PM (GMT -5)
Wings, thanks for your post and thanks for all you do for the forum and its members. May you have many more years here to celebrate with us.
Posted 11/18/2019 3:05 PM (GMT -5)
👍👍👍 Great to hear a successful PCa journey! Keep up the good work and thnx for your posts here on HW!!


Larry
Posted 11/18/2019 4:02 PM (GMT -5)
Dan - My heartfelt congratulations. May you have so many anniversaries of the day that you tire of counting them.

Your words of wisdom and your wonderful attitude certainly helped me get through some pretty rough times, and I have seen you have a similar effect on so many others.

Thank you for being here with us.
Posted 11/18/2019 4:25 PM (GMT -5)
Wings, a celebration is definitely in order. Congratulations!

Jim
Posted 11/18/2019 7:28 PM (GMT -5)
I'm hoping to reach the 2 year mark soon. Only a few behind you. Thanks for setting the bar and the inspiration.
Posted 11/18/2019 9:46 PM (GMT -5)

Wings of Eagles said...
The dreadful Diagnosis and MRI result "anniversary" date, came and went last week. I try not to look back and remember, no reason to do that, can't change it, but it is ever present. That day I was told "You have a very serious case of Prostate Cancer. Metastasized, with 4 bone mets, PSA 71 with Gleason score of 4+3, core samples up to 80% involved."
It's not a week I really celebrate, cant celebrate that diagnosis, but maybe I should. Because I am celebrating life everyday, 5 years plus into remission, the kind that all of us with Advanced PC always dream of. I have left that initial Urologist's prognosis in the dust. I have been very fortunate, but I have lost friends that have not been as fortunate.

Weeks like this make me think of where I've been, but more importantly, where I am going. So great to have found this site, and all the posters(and posers) who keep it real.
I understand the statement that cancer was the best thing to happen to me, insofar as the focus it has brought to my life,and being able to separate and recognize what is really important. My Faith, my family, my friends, which I consider all of you!

Special thoughts to Rockyfords, you are definitely one of my heroes! Love you Brother, Love you all, Keep the faith!
Wings aka Dan in So Cal

Dan, cheers for you! You and I were both diagnosed just before thanksgiving, my diagnosis anniversary is in a couple of days. May your remission and good general health continue!
Bill in MS
Posted 11/21/2019 6:26 AM (GMT -5)
Thanks much to all,
Mattam, Andrew, 81GyGuy, garyi, F8, Pratoman, Larry, Paxton, Tudpock18, Go Bucks and BillyBob, plus all you others out there. Your replies "made my day", now I can go join Clint Eastwoood , and also celebrate and go get me a doughnut!
Wings
Posted 11/21/2019 11:52 AM (GMT -5)
Congratulations! That's wonderful news. Your diagnosis is almost identical to my husbands who is coming up on three years. It gives me me hope!
Posted 12/25/2019 3:19 PM (GMT -5)

Dear Wings Of Eagles,

You've always been a true and trusted brother and comrade here on the website.

The holiday season is here, and we are reminded of the things we are thankful for --- and your post is a perfect example of thankfulness.

You have "shined the light" so brightly here, for others --- and your story encourages and uplifts all of us --- especially those seeking guidance and courage, when newly diagnosed.

I'm stepping into my seventh year of survivorship --- in a few days, I will celebrate my seventh New Year's Day since being diagnosed.

You're a cartographer in my mind ... creating a map, to guide others. From there, once you've drawn the map, you then become the trailblazer --- blazing the trail for others to follow.

What trail did you blaze? It's the one with the signpost you crafted --- directing other travelers to a place called HOPE.

I'm no different than all of our other comrades who "got the news" that day in their doctor's office. When I was first diagnosed, that's what I needed most of all --- HOPE.

Thank you, Wings of Eagles, for sharing your HOPE with others.

Happy New Year, to you, Wings of Eagles --- our friend, brother, and fellow traveler!

Happy New Year,
CYCLONE ~ Iowa State University
Posted 12/26/2019 8:20 AM (GMT -5)
Wonderful news and message. Keep up the good results.
Posted 12/26/2019 8:41 AM (GMT -5)
Congrats Dan! Happy Holidays!!
Posted 12/26/2019 10:28 AM (GMT -5)

Wings of Eagles said...
The dreadful Diagnosis and MRI result "anniversary" date, came and went last week. I try not to look back and remember... can't change it, but it is ever present... Weeks like this make me think of where I've been, but more importantly, where I am going.


Congrats, Dan. Big milestone. I don't read the forums often, for the sake of my own emotional well-being, and post far less. It is easy to spoil an entire day by reading something depressing and sending my own thoughts off into dark rumination. So I try to stay busy. But without having cancer, I would never have known and met many of the others here and on that other forum.

And now - you may have heard - that other forum is shutting down, leaving HW as the only, or best of the available educational platforms for guys and their partners who must deal with this unfortunate medical development. As it happens, so many were disturbed by the shutdown that we are trying to setup a new forum, as a non profit. It's not easy. but it is keeping my brain busy and away from thoughts of self pity.

And that's probably the greatest struggle. The cancer will do what it will do, but keeping our mind active and our spirit alive, and away from thoughts of doom and gloom. It's great that you have made good use of these recent years and are able to not dwell upon the initial shock and the likely ultimate demise. Good luck to you going forward!
Posted 12/26/2019 11:59 AM (GMT -5)

RobLee said...

Wings of Eagles said...
The dreadful Diagnosis and MRI result "anniversary" date, came and went last week. I try not to look back and remember... can't change it, but it is ever present... Weeks like this make me think of where I've been, but more importantly, where I am going.


Congrats, Dan. Big milestone. I don't read the forums often, for the sake of my own emotional well-being, and post far less. It is easy to spoil an entire day by reading something depressing and sending my own thoughts off into dark rumination. So I try to stay busy. But without having cancer, I would never have known and met many of the others here and on that other forum.

And now - you may have heard - that other forum is shutting down,...............

RobLee, what forum is shutting down?
Posted 12/26/2019 2:21 PM (GMT -5)

RobLee said...
And now - you may have heard - that other forum is shutting down,...............


BillyBob@388 said...
RobLee, what forum is shutting down?

That other one, the one we're not allowed to mention here.

It starts with "Cancer", included the word "forums" and ends with ".net".
Posted 12/26/2019 2:30 PM (GMT -5)
Still leaves unlocked, right? Don't care for it, but I visit occasionally. Starting a forum does seem like a big job. What's the purpose of doing so when a good one is right here?
Posted 12/26/2019 4:21 PM (GMT -5)
Well, I guess I, once again, missed some stuff. I did not know of such a forum, that we are not supposed to mention. But I'm guessing it has to do with certain person that used to be around here. If it is allowed, and you don't mind, PM me about exactly what you are talking about.
Posted 12/26/2019 4:33 PM (GMT -5)
I didn't think it against the rules to mention other forums.
Posted 12/26/2019 7:04 PM (GMT -5)
https://www.cancerforums.net/forums/14-prostate-cancer-forum
Posted 12/26/2019 7:51 PM (GMT -5)
It's also not against the rules to mention Tall Allen. He was a great resource here and remains a great resource.
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