Posted 9/2/2022 6:11 PM (GMT -5)
Hello, Eric and Stephanie ~
Reaching out to you, with encouragement, understanding, and support.
We have common threads woven into our "story" ... you do not stand alone, for all of us here stand alongside you.
I was diagnosed, out of the blue, as a new school year began for me as a teacher. In between "Meet The Teacher Night" with my new 44th graders and recess duty and lessons to teach, I was faced with an unexpected diagnosis of prostate cancer.
Cards on the table ~ despite the fact that my grandfather and father had also been diagnosed with prostate cancer, nothing prepared me for that moment. I represent the third generation of my family diagnosed with prostate cancer.
Not wanting to miss school days, I would drive to the clinic after school, and faced a whirlwind of tests and scans.
One test led to another ... and good news was hard to come by during those days.
I couldn't sleep, I taught all day, and tossed and turned at night.
I searched the internet for stories that would bring me some sense of hope. Then I found this website.
That's when I finally felt I wasn't alone.
In the whirlwind of those diagnostic tests, my PSA was skyrocketing with each subsequent trip to the lab.
Scans revealed the prostate cancer had already infiltrated both of my lungs. I didn't see any smiles on my doctor's face that day.
Instead, he pointed to my lung scans which looked like they were "peppered" with buckshot. Each splotch was evidence of metastatic prostate cancer.
Treatments began in haste. The first ADT shots were impactful ~ and my PSA began declining. It was the first time I saw my doctor smile ~ faintly.
That's when I could begin to see flickers of hope ...
I knew that I needed to prepare for a battle. I put together a cohesive medical team that worked together.
There was one doctor who did not embrace the concept of being a "team player." I no longer see him, and there are no regrets in that.
You have to focus on where you are TODAY and just face forward, one day at a time. I have learned to not cross bridges until I reach the river.
I chose doctors who could lead me forward, in proactive ways. One of them was Dr. Eugene Kwon, at Mayo Clinic.
I met him in the fall of 2015 and various scans were run, at his request, including the choline PET scans, which he brought to the forefront. Meeting Dr. Kwon was an unforgettable experience! He is visionary!
A busy fellow, he is known as the "early bird" of the Mayo Medical Campus ~ getting there before the city of Rochester, Minnesota, even arises. He works through lunch. He is a maverick in his approach. He tackles tough cases. Patients fly in from across the globe to see him.
On my first trip there, I met a man who had flown thousands of miles from CYPRESS to see Dr. Kwon. I have met many other patients of Dr. Kwon's since.
At my first consultation, he telephoned my main local oncologist and I watched my TEAM form in front of my eyes. Unforgettable moment. He TOOK the time to make a difference for my care plan, going forward.
I have pursued various treatments ~ ADT injections, chemotherapy, radiation, and I have been on ZYTIGA (Abiraterone Acetate) for seven years ~ a relatively new breakthrough medication when I first started taking it.
I was my local oncologist first prostate cancer patient to go through upfront chemotherapy infusions upon diagnosis & his first patient to try ZYTIGA. Please see my treatment history printed beneath my signature.
This multi-layered treatment plan has paid dividends. I have learned that the tougher the treatment, the greater the dividend can be. Chemotherapy helped me, and so did radiation. ADT injections continue to help me, and so does ZYTIGA - a daily medication.
My lessons learned?
Summon your inner strength. Get started on proactive and aggressive and multi-tiered treatments.
Assemble the best medical team you have.
Remember the importance of your family, friends, and faith ~ in whatever form that takes for you. Don't forget your usual hobbies, activities, & and interests.
You have a cancer diagnosis, but it's a chapter in your life story now - NOT the title of your BOOK OF LIFE. We are all more ~ much more ~ than our diagnosis.
I have managed to stay active and I was fortunate that I was able to keep teaching full-time during all my treatments. It wasn't always easy, but it was worth it to maintain normalcy in my life.
For me, a daily walk settles the soul & I explore state parks, trails, and lake trails every chance I get. Rest when you need to ~ but stay as active as you can, in the midst of treatments ~ mentally and physically.
Naps and an earlier bedtime can help pull you through tough treatment days. Save your energy for the important things in life & let the rest go!
The other thing I have learned ~ you have to become your own advocate. None of this comes with a road map, so you have to blaze your own trails. Follow up with your doctors. Write down questions for every appointment. Become educated on the treatments proposed.
This website is a tremendous resource for support. Ask questions here, seeks support, ask for first-hand experiences with a medication or treatment.
I'm going to stand alongside you in the battle trench, starting at this moment. Consider me a comrade, a compadre, and a fellow traveler. I will walk alongside you & support you, in any way I can ... and that's what this website is all about.
You already can sense the support from all the others who are reaching out to you ... a collective "band of brothers" ... and brotherhood is a powerful thing.
I hope something in my story will encourage you, light a candle of H-O-P-E for you, and let you know you have other "brothers in the battle" here ~ and we are RIGHT HERE!
Handshake, encouragement, & fellowship ~ from "one brother to another" ~
CYCLONE ~ # Iowa State University