First suggestion, get a recorder, ask the doc if you can use it, and record the conversations. You are about
to step into the twilight zone, and you'll miss about
half of what is said.
Latest phones often have recorders built in - try it first in a room environment.
Back to the big question, yup, sounds like you are one of us now. Let's wait till you talk to the doc before saying much, as he needs to explain things. But, do go to our "useful list" thread (the second thread at the top of the list, almost to the bottom of the posts in that thread, there is a link to it, I'll copy it and paste it here shortly). Have a read of that first.
Link added:
Prostate Cancer: The Really Useful List made by HW people for HW people.
https://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=35&m=1717641