Shared Decision Making (SDM) is the way that physicians are now trained to practice medicine. I have a strong hunch that the underbelly of many of the intense disagreements that occur at this forum are due to the various ways that each of us approaches medical decision-making. How we decide what to do about
personal medical matters is important as more responsibility is shifted to patients and medical care becomes a shared enterprise.
What are the major influencing factors in how you make medical decisions? Do you prefer to let your doctor decide, since he or she has more expertise than you? Do you research intensively, essentially making your own decisions based on the best information you can find about your medical condition? Do you ask others with similar medical issues, weighing their opinion (lightly or heavily) to influence your decision. Do you base your medical decisions on fear? Are you influenced by a previous medical failure? A distrust of doctors? Are you strongly influenced by your spouse or partner? Do you make decisions logically? Emotionally? Do you make decisions quickly? Slowly? Do you second guess your decision?
These questions scratch the surface of how we make medical decisions. There are many other questions that influence are decisions.
And of course, no decision is black or white, but a full spectrum of color. I do, think, however that we have a strong magnetic pull towards certain ways of making medical decisions.
Regarding prostate cancer, I got a baseline PSA at age 40, nearly a quarter century ago. Because my PSA quadrupled in a year, at age 55, my primary care provider sent me to a urologist for a consultation. At that time (and to a certain extent today). PSA velocity was considered a primary indicator of the possibility of prostate cancer. After a consultation with the urologist, we did a biopsy, which showed a single core of Gleeson 6 cancer. Today, active surveillance would probably be suggested as the first and most favorable option. My wife and I considered our options and my family history (My grandfather died of prostate cancer; my uncle had a prostatectomy; my brother died at 40 of another type of cancer). I based my decision on the medical recommendations at that time ( I read all the prostate cancer books I could get my hands on), my family history of cancer, my excellent health at the time--and the possibility that I could live another 40 years--and chose open prostatectomy (robotic was still new) over brachytherapy for a number of reasons important to me. I live comfortably with that decision, but regret that the promised land of returned sexual function still eludes me.