I think ED is family friendly! It affects most of the men and their wives/partners who have had some intervention, and I believe that its no different to discussing incontinence.
Furthermore, Its the topic least discussed when you visit the uro, its almost an after thought when CANCER stares you in the face.
Many men suffer greatly, and to "fob" them off to Franktalk where a lot of men do NOT have cancer or have had cancer intervention is unfair. We are adult/mature about
these things, and the men who suffer from the condition should have a voice and be heard because most have ED as a consequence of PCa intervention. There are specialist urologist who deals specifically in this domain, and PCa sufferers should KNOW what to expect and what their options are (Nerve sparing comes to mind).
One of the post op interventions , is to start with a compendium of "stimulator" to get blood flow, and thats equally important. What to do pre and post operation is just as important, because it gives sufferers a VOICE to share how they feel as a consequence of having had a RRP or other intervention. I think the work done at Sloan Kettering is worth sharing with prospective HW "peeps" see
www.mskcc.org/cancer-care/doctor/john-mulhall and the research they do. The majority of discussion on Franktalk is about
penile implants and that is just scary to someone who has just had a RRP (or other intervention), when the work done by Dr Mullhall and others deal specifically with men who have had PCa. PENILE REHAB is just as important in the PCa Trifecta of Cancer, Incontinence and ED.
Furthermore, a large number of men report on their ED status (myself included). It helps me know how others are coping and feeling about
being limp and what progress they are having. I think someone reported that the lights suddenly came on after a year of non-response -- now thats encouraging and hopeful. ED is the elephant in the room. So lets have a mature and adult discussion about
ED to help others as best we can with PCa and its consequences.
Here's some good news :
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23551767.