Posted 9/25/2015 12:40 PM (GMT -5)
Sorry to hear about this, but as other have pointed out this is a very little amount of a very non-aggressive type of cancer. (Assuming your second opinion concurs.) I'd guess a significant number of guys in their 50s and 60s are walking around with more cancer than this, and just don't know about it.
I would really consider Active Surveillance with this type of diagnosis--no sense in upsetting the apple cart over this. Best case, they keep monitoring and your condition doesn't significantly change and you never have to have it treated. Worst case is they monitor it and sometime in the near or far future, they decide to treat it then. In that case you've bought yourself a number of SE-free years and any potential treatments are only going to get better over time. If you do choose to treat it (which would be the equivalent of an elective procedure in your case), anything should do the trick so your focus needs to be on which set of SEs you can best live with since they all more or less have them.
I know no one wants to hear they have cancer, but this is one that you should be able to live with.