I wanted to followup on my story, history is above. This board was helpful to me when I started down this path 2 years ago and what I want to share is how the relationship with my doctor changed things.
The idea of a biopsy really had me freaked out. I wasn't able to get any forward movement until I talked to a urologist who understood this. The other urologists I'd seen were factual, the biopsy is the next step, let's do it. This doctor took that pressure away. I saw him twice before he ordered an MRI. The results I got back convinced me a biopsy was in order. When I got the biopsy, it was done with sedation and turned out to be no big deal. (BTW, the earlier urologists never mentioned sedation as an option.) The biopsy results showed cancer in the areas the MRI identified, but also in other areas as well. At that point, he talked about
my surgical options and side effects, and said I needed to talk with a radiation oncologist next before making a decision about
what to do. It wasn't until I decided upon surgery that he voiced his opinion that he also thought that was the best decision.
Fast forward, I had a RALP 5 weeks ago. All the lymph nodes he removed were clear, as well as the fat around the prostate, so things look good. I see him again in a few weeks to start monitoring PSA levels with ultra-sensitive PSA tests (since my earlier levels didn't indicate much).
This doctor's patient skills made all the difference for me. He guided me through making a decision, rather than deciding for me.
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Age: 61
11/15 PSA 1.7
5/17 MRI
7/17 Biopsy 10-12 cores positive/17 samples, Gleason 4+3
10/17 RALP
Stage T3a
Post Edited (Mike_T) : 11/16/2017 9:23:11 AM (GMT-7)