Oh I can so understand how you both feel. It must be especially hard for it to be your son. Hmmmm..well how do I handle this condition. Well, it seems to vary a bit. Sometimes when things are going reasonably well and I am feeling pretty good, I think I can handle it and it will be okay. HOwever when things flair up, I do get extremely frustrated and upset. I am working on just going through the appropriate motions w/out all of the emotional drama...it is really hard. It seems that your son has been through so much more than myself and I can feel for both of you.
The constant ups and downs and the upredictability of it all is tough to take. I have been through all of the emotions when diagnosed..anger, bargaining, denial, depression etc.... I am 39 years old(so close to your son in age) and pretty bitter than I have a chronic disease going on. I do try to remember though that people have alot worse things going on and that will sometimes give me perspective.
I also have been pretty disappointed in the medical scene. I think it is part of having meds that work sometimes yes, sometimes no. Also pay a fortune for the meds and they don't necessarily put you in full remission or for long. Also I had a few bonehead Dr's along the way but did find one that now is reasonably caring and will work w/ me when I want to try something and takes my feelings in mind.
As far as the Carafate...I can't see how it would hurt to try it. I would tell him that it is a fairly easy med as far as I have read regarding side effects. It is however tricky to take w food and med schedules. But truly, due to the benign nature of the med (again as long as no kidney probs. b/c of aluminum) it is worth trying. Hey you never know what could help and I keep telling myself that. I keep a list of things to try and than try it and if not, cross it off of my list. Some things that may help that he can put on "his" list is ...probiotics (like VSL 3 or Ultimate Flora Critical Care), also Fiber such as Metamucil (go slow and build up on this.) I know it sounds strange to take fiber for diarrhea, but it does help bulk things up, also some like L-Glutamine etc.... Anyway just a few suggestions.
I would def. recommend him coming to this site if he is willing as it has been so great to get helpful real world info from people who really have UC, not just the Dr who knows about it in theory. The people here are so nice, helpful and supportive. I would encourage him to do it. I wish i had better advice regarding attitude, but it is a struggle for me as well. Pls let us know if there is anything else we can do tell help!
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Also I bet if you start a new post introducing yourself you will get alot of responses!
Post Edited (hateuc) : 11/11/2013 9:57:41 AM (GMT-7)