OT what he wanted

I posted a few days ago about my dads sudden death well it's his funeral tomorrow and his wish was to have a Jazz band a new orlens jazz band which is what he is having leading the hurst not very easy to find in Royel Tunbridge Wells but have done it we might upset some people but anyone who really new dad thinks it's great as he said it's a celebration of his life and he was such a kind and caring man who would do anything for any body  and would always go without to help his family it is only fitting that he should have his last wish and we are also having a big get together after as he loved to party i still can't believe he has gone and still think he will come walking through the door trailing mud across the carpet i know i am going to find tomorrow so hard but have got to be strong for mum will post to say how it went sorry for waffling but needed to let it out x

It's awesome your father shared his wishes for a New Orleans jazz band to lead him at his own funeral..and that you're honouring them.

I agree that it's for the celebration of his life, there's no doubt he will be missed and that the day will be difficult and sad. Take in the sharing from others of how they knew and remember him. Hopefully, others will overlook the aspects of the arrangements that they might not like.

I hope the support of your family and friends helps you through this painful time.

quincy