remicade/6mp issue

So it's been a few weeks since my 3rd remicade visit. My gi wanted me to lower my 6mp from 125mg to 75mg. As of now I'm going 1-3 x a day mostly in the morning/early after noon with a little bit of urgency. I use 1-2 mesalamine enemas a week but might start doing them every night. Stools come out semi formed then turn to mush after being in the water a couple minutes. Wondering if I should go back up with the 6mp, I feel like I was doing better with the higher dose. My gi was just concerned with the risk with remicade & a high dose of 6mp. My diet is pretty simple. I'm getting stricter with my diet too, as of a few days i'm gluten/wheat/dairy free but havn't given up coffee yet. Only eating lean chicken/ground turkey & certain fruits & veggies. Have been snacking on sunflower seeds/spinach. On the bright side I have a new girlfriend. She is familiar with ibd and seems to really like me. She is pretty hot too

High doses of 6mp or Imuran while on Remicade can increase the chance of Lymphoma's and/or lower your immune system too much. So I can understand why the doc wants you to lower your 6mp. But I think you should give the Remi more time before considering upping your 6mp again.

From what I recall, for lymphoma... 2/10000 with remi. 4/10000 with remi and aza/6mp. 6/10000 for remi and aza/6mp and young male. While it is a "high" increase relatively. Its not very much when looking at the overalll picture.

Also I doubt this is dose dependent. Chances are probably not as low as you wish on the lower dose, even relatively.