Ugggggh if I could trade out of body experience feeling weird and strange, and out of nowhere back to back weird, strange feelings for peace and comfort and not having to fight 24/7 for normal and to ignore these feelings the best way I can because if I was to pay them attention I would be back in the psych ward and just w wreck but I stay trying to hold on.
Finally ready to give up yet another no good relationship 💑 that want end up no where, I don't know why I keep falling for these no good men and truly age don't matter I've in past put up with men from 25 to 51 and the 50 years old turn out to be much more worse being older and lying just sick and I've just has enough with these losers really tired of it and just want to be left alone when it comes to relationships and stressing with health issues it is just to much on top 🔝 of another and Iam just going to truly start focusing on me and not extra baggage that I truly don't need just determine to get better and more healthier in each and every way mainly mentally for we all should know thats where true good health starts from. Truly would also like to figure out why here lately when I get into a car 🚗 I begin to have breathing trouble and panic it has been over a month now with that just starting and happning and with the weird sensations I want this mess to better already.

Hi Soul,

Hibee has advised you well. Use your coping skills to get your through the anxiety and attacks. See our Resources if you've not been there in awhile...there have been some new additions...and something may pop out at you that you have not previously tried.;)

As far as relationships? You know that most people find 'the one' when they are not even looking...

...and this usually happens when they are focused on working on themselves, just as you said!

Are you currently in church? If not, how about finding one with a good singles group?

Not with the purpose of finding a man...but just for making postivie social connections in general.:)

Thoughts and prayers going out your way...keep posting my friend.

S.C.

I agree. Focus on yourself and put "romantic relationships" on the back burner.

For what it's worth, my Husband is 10 years younger than me and we met when neither of us were even looking, or necessarily wanting any type of romantic relationship. We clicked on an intellectual level and tossed the ball back and forth and....voila! I don't think *age* has anything to do with it, and I'm living that out in my own life....

I don't know, honestly, if we would have sought each other out from the get go. But really, it's funny how it works, but when you stop trying so hard and just "do your thing" and make yourself a stronger, interesting, dynamic person who is healthy,....Nature has a way of turning the corner at the most curious of times.... especially when you're not looking!

I couldn't be happier, and we're stronger and better now than we've ever been! Whoda thunk it? :)





M.